I know I’m going to get backlash, but if she’s okay with it, then fine, end up together or something. But if she backs away, is hesitant and is like “um, it ain’t going to work out” why does the relationship have to be romantic? Why can’t they just be mutual and co-parent the kid because honestly I feel like the kid matters even more. Sure, the kid probably wants mom and dad, but if mom doesn’t want to be with dad or dad doesn’t want to be with mom (i’m speaking in general parted relationships) why can’t they simply co-parent. I feel ideas where you have romantically be with someone or have to stay on someones side for the sake of the child is so toxic and ends up hurting yourself, and the kid even more. Not saying that this story is going forward that message but sometimes people misunderstand that this is reality..like no it ain’t. In many cases, relationships like these where miscommunication and abuse (yes, there is more than 1 type of abuse ?) always break away, come again, get “help” and its always a frustration nonstop cycle that needs to be broken and healed. REMEMBER guys, this isn’t realistic, people program these plots into their head as a wonderland story, and into actual relationships.. which is dysfunctional. Why am I saying this? Because a lot of people delusional themselves with manhuas/webtoons/manga relationships into their every day life whether its social or cultural aspects/relationships with people or a community and get distraught or betrayed by their own thinking and get stuck on why isn’t like they thought. So if you are someone who sees life in the lens of these graphic novels, then get help and get a reality check please (no hard feelings) ?
I keep getting bothered by the fact that she keeps putting out these boundaries to him (which I thought was finally smart from the Author because a lot of these plots make the female MC a pushover and someone weak who always forgives ML only to be hurt so I was like “yeah” a girl who can stand her ground) only for the author to be like “no, she going to act different to him as a shy. flustered girl who accepts him.” It’s literally common sense that in a broken relationship, you don’t get back together ASAP. (like not saying you can’t but why already in .2 seconds? get help first Jesus) Some of you may argue “wE ll iTs BeEn 2 mOnThs” (yeah like 2 months and if ya’ll see that as a long time, then you either get no bitches or are with the same hoe for 2 years on and off again with a non stable relationship) All the boundaries she put is literally going to waste and have people confused with whats healthy and not. I swear, there are some literal 12 year old’s on this thinking that if the dude is trying to win you back, constantly is like “she said no to me and is being reasonable but I’m going to pester even more” as a healthy thing *THAT PEOPLE KEEP TRYING TO NORMALIZE* they will think its healthy and grow up thinking it’s so. Remember guys, a lot of things can influence a younger, immature audience. Sir, I told you no, but you’re trying to seduce me, fuck off.
I understand these comments. And respect for writing a whole essay! C: but remember this is fictional. The mc and ml still love eachother. If it were irl the mc would be longggg gone.
I really don’t care if they stay together or not. They should think about Junu. Junu is the one they should be minding. Junu should know his father, should’ve given the right to have his father around, they staying together or not. If they stay together, which they’ll have to compromise a lot, forgive a lot and most time won’t work out, they’ll hurt Junu, not only themselves. So, if they could make efforts only for Junu and give themselves time, maybe, maybe then, they should try to work out. But he’s just tryig to win her back and she’s just denying him the right to be a father because she wants to. Poor Junu.
If you are the one that is hoping for them to end together, I must tell you: please, know how to differentiate between fiction and reality.
This manhwa It’s definitely ridiculous.
How many times do a woman need to deny a man to be respected?
They don’t make a good couple, he doesn’t respect her and her wishes.
I do understand that she must tell Junu who is his father and let then, father and son, be together from time to time. But this shouldn’t be a reason for wanting then to be together.
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treasury
I know I’m going to get backlash, but if she’s okay with it, then fine, end up together or something. But if she backs away, is hesitant and is like “um, it ain’t going to work out” why does the relationship have to be romantic? Why can’t they just be mutual and co-parent the kid because honestly I feel like the kid matters even more. Sure, the kid probably wants mom and dad, but if mom doesn’t want to be with dad or dad doesn’t want to be with mom (i’m speaking in general parted relationships) why can’t they simply co-parent. I feel ideas where you have romantically be with someone or have to stay on someones side for the sake of the child is so toxic and ends up hurting yourself, and the kid even more. Not saying that this story is going forward that message but sometimes people misunderstand that this is reality..like no it ain’t. In many cases, relationships like these where miscommunication and abuse (yes, there is more than 1 type of abuse ?) always break away, come again, get “help” and its always a frustration nonstop cycle that needs to be broken and healed. REMEMBER guys, this isn’t realistic, people program these plots into their head as a wonderland story, and into actual relationships.. which is dysfunctional. Why am I saying this? Because a lot of people delusional themselves with manhuas/webtoons/manga relationships into their every day life whether its social or cultural aspects/relationships with people or a community and get distraught or betrayed by their own thinking and get stuck on why isn’t like they thought. So if you are someone who sees life in the lens of these graphic novels, then get help and get a reality check please (no hard feelings) ?
A_Vha
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Lonelypluto
I keep getting bothered by the fact that she keeps putting out these boundaries to him (which I thought was finally smart from the Author because a lot of these plots make the female MC a pushover and someone weak who always forgives ML only to be hurt so I was like “yeah” a girl who can stand her ground) only for the author to be like “no, she going to act different to him as a shy. flustered girl who accepts him.” It’s literally common sense that in a broken relationship, you don’t get back together ASAP. (like not saying you can’t but why already in .2 seconds? get help first Jesus) Some of you may argue “wE ll iTs BeEn 2 mOnThs” (yeah like 2 months and if ya’ll see that as a long time, then you either get no bitches or are with the same hoe for 2 years on and off again with a non stable relationship) All the boundaries she put is literally going to waste and have people confused with whats healthy and not. I swear, there are some literal 12 year old’s on this thinking that if the dude is trying to win you back, constantly is like “she said no to me and is being reasonable but I’m going to pester even more” as a healthy thing *THAT PEOPLE KEEP TRYING TO NORMALIZE* they will think its healthy and grow up thinking it’s so. Remember guys, a lot of things can influence a younger, immature audience. Sir, I told you no, but you’re trying to seduce me, fuck off.
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Rochelle2009
I understand these comments. And respect for writing a whole essay! C: but remember this is fictional. The mc and ml still love eachother. If it were irl the mc would be longggg gone.
faithinone
I really don’t care if they stay together or not. They should think about Junu. Junu is the one they should be minding. Junu should know his father, should’ve given the right to have his father around, they staying together or not. If they stay together, which they’ll have to compromise a lot, forgive a lot and most time won’t work out, they’ll hurt Junu, not only themselves. So, if they could make efforts only for Junu and give themselves time, maybe, maybe then, they should try to work out. But he’s just tryig to win her back and she’s just denying him the right to be a father because she wants to. Poor Junu.
Giovannabbottino
If you are the one that is hoping for them to end together, I must tell you: please, know how to differentiate between fiction and reality.
This manhwa It’s definitely ridiculous.
How many times do a woman need to deny a man to be respected?
They don’t make a good couple, he doesn’t respect her and her wishes.
I do understand that she must tell Junu who is his father and let then, father and son, be together from time to time. But this shouldn’t be a reason for wanting then to be together.
Lonelypluto
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yeah. A lot of younger people think this is okay and go with it but please don’t think that this is non toxic and okay, because its not…