I understand that Winter may have neglected Violet for the 3 years after they were married but his reason for it was NOT a selfish one, he simply just wanted to make Violet feel less guilty for the 25 million for the wedding and to give her a comfortable life, however, that backfired terribly but after he realises what happened, he changed, told of his parents off who were the only people that treated him well (even if they were just using him), he was willing to tried adoption and move to the capital for her and above all, he said he loves her and didn’t want her to leave him.
and yet she f*$% off for her OWN happiness without giving him a second to realise that she kill herself multiple times and put all the blame on him even though it was his f*$%*£& parrents fault.
@Meow-Meow 3
stop blaming the victim.
she has the right to leave.
he said she could if she pays him back and that’s exactly what she’s been doing.
he should bear the consequences of his hurtful words
@Meow-Meow 3
Tf does it matter that winter was ‘doing right’ in his own stead? The whole point starts from him lacking in basic human conversations that fill loop holes within relationships. No matter how busy and occupied and tired he was, i refuse to belive that one doesn’t even have a single minute to spare for a conversation. Had he listened to his wife even for a moment, at least some confusions must have been cleared in those 3 years. AND yes, Violet’s sudden leaving probably was a very out-of-nowhere decision, seeing how the story was progressing. It’s still not something i guess we are qualified enough to judge, when we don’t even know how the internal turmoil of a person who is depressed works. She felt betrayed, felt burdened and what not. Even told it herself that she felt like she was dying when she was with him. Doesn’t matter how much you love someone, it’s really important to give priorities to one’s own mental fucking health. We should understand that love and the feeling of being constantly under mental pressure are not even close to being on the same plane. While reading i felt so mentally exhausted from her situation, and that is why tbh i would have done the same, if i were to be in her place, We need to understand that blaming someone is not the way to solve problems that can be solved by simple conversations and expressing true feelings. And her feelings were: She felt shitty and wanted to leave.
Now we can’t expect to change 3 years worth of mental and physical damage to magically change in some few months, can we?
i wonder what will happen if this story will be the usual troupe of “An fl princess married a divorced ML, who had a bad break up w/his prev wife due to lack of communication, polar opposite individuality & lack of time for each other” thing, then that very fl of the story will show her strong willed personality as she take charge to ml different kind of views & past relationship break up, & they will co exist properly since they work together.
My heart broke for winter, such an unfortunate events for a couple who had the literal set of “POLAR OPPOSITE” individual, i mean in everything, background, childhood, mindset, goals, perception, etc. But did had a genuine feelings for each other, my feelings weighs heavier for winter, since i had experience a childhood trauma that give me a different perception of what is good nor bad in REAL WORLD, which usually people often take me as a rude or bad person since i am a practical person who don’t really BELIEVE IN SOCIAL IDEALS, & my childhood trauma in the hands of my toxic father is WAY FAR FROM WHAT THE ML had undergo, they both have a painful experience that molds them into their present mindset, the difference is just for the FL this was all new for her & was all fresh & was just recent events, she was the typical angel princess that promotes LOVE, RESPECT, UNDERSTAND & MARTYR DOME mindset as a royalty for the society, that see goodness in everything, so this WRENCHING SHITS she had experience in the hands of JEALOUS & SELFISH LOWER NOBLES where like a HELL & new evilness she had seen ever since she was born.
While on the other hand, the ML had a heavy baring past that molds him into becoming a cold hard person he is now, i don’t even need to state all his shits he had experience, he was raised to have a mindset of being compensated of affection as long as he works hard & appease people w/money & luxury, since as a child he never had those & people around him, wishes for luxury, he craved for love so HE WORKS his butt of to appease the princess that was married off to him, he is aware that he is rude, brute, etc. & his only strong point for him is witt in finances, talent in making his self wealthy, & he thought that he can atleast make the PRINCESS(A ROYALTY) happy & satisfied by his talent alone, there are so much deep emotion that winter had, u just need to widen ur point of view of people’s experiences & mindsets.
People hated him since the plot or story started in the wife’s pov & her current experiences & how she was tainted a pure maiden by the evilness of the blooming household, she isn’t strong wielded person so a small gaslight manipulation talk, she then get meek & silence her self, & would not stand for her self, & will choose to kept the peace & understanding
it wasn’t just his parent’s fault it was his fault as well. She didn’t want to be associated with him she was clearly suicidal it was too late to mend this relationship cause it already caused her such deep wounds. Just let her be, It’s her choice whether she wants to go back or not. U don’t think she misses him? of course she dies. But she has learnt to move on and he is giving her the space she needs.
Who say its his fault they can’t even function their brain right .. Sorry she couldn’t stand for her self plus (but now she can!) his parent .. While he lived through hell all his childhood .. Sorry but there is no compare here .. Its losing battle. While she is a victim too he is the biggest victim here.
Lucia<3
i dont even know what to say at this point…
Meow-Meow 3
I understand that Winter may have neglected Violet for the 3 years after they were married but his reason for it was NOT a selfish one, he simply just wanted to make Violet feel less guilty for the 25 million for the wedding and to give her a comfortable life, however, that backfired terribly but after he realises what happened, he changed, told of his parents off who were the only people that treated him well (even if they were just using him), he was willing to tried adoption and move to the capital for her and above all, he said he loves her and didn’t want her to leave him.
and yet she f*$% off for her OWN happiness without giving him a second to realise that she kill herself multiple times and put all the blame on him even though it was his f*$%*£& parrents fault.
Meow-Meow 3
This is getting to the point where it is just ridiculous!
TessDHuberville
@Meow-Meow 3
stop blaming the victim.
she has the right to leave.
he said she could if she pays him back and that’s exactly what she’s been doing.
he should bear the consequences of his hurtful words
your_mother
@Meow-Meow 3
Tf does it matter that winter was ‘doing right’ in his own stead? The whole point starts from him lacking in basic human conversations that fill loop holes within relationships. No matter how busy and occupied and tired he was, i refuse to belive that one doesn’t even have a single minute to spare for a conversation. Had he listened to his wife even for a moment, at least some confusions must have been cleared in those 3 years. AND yes, Violet’s sudden leaving probably was a very out-of-nowhere decision, seeing how the story was progressing. It’s still not something i guess we are qualified enough to judge, when we don’t even know how the internal turmoil of a person who is depressed works. She felt betrayed, felt burdened and what not. Even told it herself that she felt like she was dying when she was with him. Doesn’t matter how much you love someone, it’s really important to give priorities to one’s own mental fucking health. We should understand that love and the feeling of being constantly under mental pressure are not even close to being on the same plane. While reading i felt so mentally exhausted from her situation, and that is why tbh i would have done the same, if i were to be in her place, We need to understand that blaming someone is not the way to solve problems that can be solved by simple conversations and expressing true feelings. And her feelings were: She felt shitty and wanted to leave.
Now we can’t expect to change 3 years worth of mental and physical damage to magically change in some few months, can we?
Angeeeeeeeela
i wonder what will happen if this story will be the usual troupe of “An fl princess married a divorced ML, who had a bad break up w/his prev wife due to lack of communication, polar opposite individuality & lack of time for each other” thing, then that very fl of the story will show her strong willed personality as she take charge to ml different kind of views & past relationship break up, & they will co exist properly since they work together.
My heart broke for winter, such an unfortunate events for a couple who had the literal set of “POLAR OPPOSITE” individual, i mean in everything, background, childhood, mindset, goals, perception, etc. But did had a genuine feelings for each other, my feelings weighs heavier for winter, since i had experience a childhood trauma that give me a different perception of what is good nor bad in REAL WORLD, which usually people often take me as a rude or bad person since i am a practical person who don’t really BELIEVE IN SOCIAL IDEALS, & my childhood trauma in the hands of my toxic father is WAY FAR FROM WHAT THE ML had undergo, they both have a painful experience that molds them into their present mindset, the difference is just for the FL this was all new for her & was all fresh & was just recent events, she was the typical angel princess that promotes LOVE, RESPECT, UNDERSTAND & MARTYR DOME mindset as a royalty for the society, that see goodness in everything, so this WRENCHING SHITS she had experience in the hands of JEALOUS & SELFISH LOWER NOBLES where like a HELL & new evilness she had seen ever since she was born.
While on the other hand, the ML had a heavy baring past that molds him into becoming a cold hard person he is now, i don’t even need to state all his shits he had experience, he was raised to have a mindset of being compensated of affection as long as he works hard & appease people w/money & luxury, since as a child he never had those & people around him, wishes for luxury, he craved for love so HE WORKS his butt of to appease the princess that was married off to him, he is aware that he is rude, brute, etc. & his only strong point for him is witt in finances, talent in making his self wealthy, & he thought that he can atleast make the PRINCESS(A ROYALTY) happy & satisfied by his talent alone, there are so much deep emotion that winter had, u just need to widen ur point of view of people’s experiences & mindsets.
People hated him since the plot or story started in the wife’s pov & her current experiences & how she was tainted a pure maiden by the evilness of the blooming household, she isn’t strong wielded person so a small gaslight manipulation talk, she then get meek & silence her self, & would not stand for her self, & will choose to kept the peace & understanding
_maple_
it wasn’t just his parent’s fault it was his fault as well. She didn’t want to be associated with him she was clearly suicidal it was too late to mend this relationship cause it already caused her such deep wounds. Just let her be, It’s her choice whether she wants to go back or not. U don’t think she misses him? of course she dies. But she has learnt to move on and he is giving her the space she needs.
Aoixneko
Who say its his fault they can’t even function their brain right .. Sorry she couldn’t stand for her self plus (but now she can!) his parent .. While he lived through hell all his childhood .. Sorry but there is no compare here .. Its losing battle. While she is a victim too he is the biggest victim here.
Aoixneko
@Meow-Meow 3 totally agree .. She could take a break at least but she is doing more than that now. ?
HaileyisJelly
Haaa….GET YOUR ASS OF THAT CHAIR AND BEG FOR FORGIVENESS
misticelf
Finally, some self-awareness.