umm I understand that one might try to “change” to win someones heart but if you change everything about yourself to please someones taste then you’re just lying to urself and the person you’re changing for…seems unfair for both parties and kinda fake or am I being too personal/sensitive lol
I thought the same thing. And also, I feel like there is the both physical attraction and personality wise. To some people it may sound mean but there is always somewhat of a physical attraction towards someone. ( I’m not saying its bad, like who you want but sometimes its unhealthy to want a person that looks korean but isn’t korean *talking about the toxic kpop “fans” lol* ) like I wonder if he likes someone with light colored hair or someone who is tall/short. I am no expert but no means and I feel dumb typing this comment so I’m ignorant so don’t murder me in the comment section lol. I feel like I could have said all of this in a sentence but I ended typing in a paragraph so it doesn’t sense what point i’m trying to cross lol
I understand. I was going to mention that as well, like she already presented herself to him like a clingy bitch ( sorry not sorry but she did act annoying ) so I don’t know how he’d react to her all of a sudden to changing for the better. I understand she was acting but it’d be confusing for the person to suddenly see a change in a person especially when they were the opposite in what they were looking for and then they fit into the “my ideal type” categories lol. What if my guy likes girls with short pink hair? Or a fairy? Or someone who gives off “baddie” aura haha? AND WHAT IF HE LIKES A GIRL WHO ACTS LIKE HIS MOM!!! IT MAY SOUND WEIRD BUT TRUST ME I KNOW GUYS THAT TEND TO GO FOR GIRLS WHO LOOK AND ACT LIKE THEIR MOMS AHHHHHHHH!!! ( not saying this isn’t weird but its common….) But again, this is just some fantasy world in which anything can happen. My brain hurts hahaha.
bad_axx
umm I understand that one might try to “change” to win someones heart but if you change everything about yourself to please someones taste then you’re just lying to urself and the person you’re changing for…seems unfair for both parties and kinda fake or am I being too personal/sensitive lol
Lonelypluto
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I thought the same thing. And also, I feel like there is the both physical attraction and personality wise. To some people it may sound mean but there is always somewhat of a physical attraction towards someone. ( I’m not saying its bad, like who you want but sometimes its unhealthy to want a person that looks korean but isn’t korean *talking about the toxic kpop “fans” lol* ) like I wonder if he likes someone with light colored hair or someone who is tall/short. I am no expert but no means and I feel dumb typing this comment so I’m ignorant so don’t murder me in the comment section lol. I feel like I could have said all of this in a sentence but I ended typing in a paragraph so it doesn’t sense what point i’m trying to cross lol
bad_axx
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I understand. I was going to mention that as well, like she already presented herself to him like a clingy bitch ( sorry not sorry but she did act annoying ) so I don’t know how he’d react to her all of a sudden to changing for the better. I understand she was acting but it’d be confusing for the person to suddenly see a change in a person especially when they were the opposite in what they were looking for and then they fit into the “my ideal type” categories lol. What if my guy likes girls with short pink hair? Or a fairy? Or someone who gives off “baddie” aura haha? AND WHAT IF HE LIKES A GIRL WHO ACTS LIKE HIS MOM!!! IT MAY SOUND WEIRD BUT TRUST ME I KNOW GUYS THAT TEND TO GO FOR GIRLS WHO LOOK AND ACT LIKE THEIR MOMS AHHHHHHHH!!! ( not saying this isn’t weird but its common….) But again, this is just some fantasy world in which anything can happen. My brain hurts hahaha.
Garciaa
Yess lesgoo Mina x Isis i wont mind if she want to fall in love with Isis