I m sorry i cannot relate i m the oldest child but if the middle child is insecure about everything ik i have a lots of friends who are middle child and i dont want to demean anybody her …. but think qbout how much pressure we older siblings have we have to be good in everything to set examples we need to give our best even if we have disturbed mental health we always have to be understanding towards everything and look after our siblings when there is no one to look after us ….. and us older siblings we always want the best for our younger siblings we dont want them to go through what we went through we dont want you guys to go through something that is uncomfortable because healing needs time healing is so hard….
Ik i m ranting but i think we older siblings also need some love bcoz what we get from our parents is not attention but expectations… they dont show love all the want is us being the best out there …. i m sorry for ranting so much
There’s nothing wrong with feeling pressured and struggling with expectations ? we all go through it albeit differently and we also deal with it differently.
We just have to be careful not to compare our own struggles to another cuz ones difficulty is different from everyone elses.
Just cuz the someone (eldest, possibly) has it worse than others (middle/youngest) doesn’t mean they have no place to be insecure and struggle with it.
What one views as worst may not be as bad to others. We all tend to feel that what we go through is worse cuz we experience it for ourselves and we unknowingly have biased opinions to support and think of ourselves first.
There’s no need to be competing on who has more expectations, problems and struggles.
We all go through them and we all have to deal with them.
It’s not that someone’s problems are bigger or smaller everyone is affected by diffrent things differently while you might feel ur problems are bigger or smaller you are allowed to complain since it allows you to feel better.
And I know this is completely off topic but I realized I might have depression lately but I don’t want to talk about it to my parents what should I do
aichan
Ahhhh~ yes the insecure average middle child trope ? a classic
Adorascarlie
I m sorry i cannot relate i m the oldest child but if the middle child is insecure about everything ik i have a lots of friends who are middle child and i dont want to demean anybody her …. but think qbout how much pressure we older siblings have we have to be good in everything to set examples we need to give our best even if we have disturbed mental health we always have to be understanding towards everything and look after our siblings when there is no one to look after us ….. and us older siblings we always want the best for our younger siblings we dont want them to go through what we went through we dont want you guys to go through something that is uncomfortable because healing needs time healing is so hard….
Ik i m ranting but i think we older siblings also need some love bcoz what we get from our parents is not attention but expectations… they dont show love all the want is us being the best out there …. i m sorry for ranting so much
aichan
There’s nothing wrong with feeling pressured and struggling with expectations ? we all go through it albeit differently and we also deal with it differently.
We just have to be careful not to compare our own struggles to another cuz ones difficulty is different from everyone elses.
Just cuz the someone (eldest, possibly) has it worse than others (middle/youngest) doesn’t mean they have no place to be insecure and struggle with it.
What one views as worst may not be as bad to others. We all tend to feel that what we go through is worse cuz we experience it for ourselves and we unknowingly have biased opinions to support and think of ourselves first.
There’s no need to be competing on who has more expectations, problems and struggles.
We all go through them and we all have to deal with them.
Mmgugyu
Well he is the middle child?♀️
Athanasia
It’s not that someone’s problems are bigger or smaller everyone is affected by diffrent things differently while you might feel ur problems are bigger or smaller you are allowed to complain since it allows you to feel better.
And I know this is completely off topic but I realized I might have depression lately but I don’t want to talk about it to my parents what should I do
HoshiKuzu
Maybe don’t invalidate other people’s feelings just because you have it “harder”.
Teacup
haaaaa you crazy child
but then again he’s the middle child, he must be feeling insecure and pressured
Sleep deprived
Damn that was emotional ? though I didn’t understand half of it
Solo_Leveling
I get he can feel like that, but he shouldn’t make that an argument when he clearly did something wrong
Athy x lucas for life
Middle child syndrome
SoftspaceBl
People: I can relate Me: When your the youngest who takes care of the oldest and middle child ?
Mary Dee
Elais I feel you